Communication gap in relationship

In the last two weeks our therapists have answered 211 queries related to mental health.

Stress

Relationship Issues

I have a girlfriend, I love her so much but she always fights with me, she always blew up the small things ,I'm tired of it , I can't study or do anything , I can't even leave her because her so much , she sefered lot , she was punished severely by her parents daily

finickyViper0

46 Answers
Sunshineme
1
You need to talk to her that she should avoid fights or else it wont work for long term. You need to bring peace and reason with her
finickyViper0
1
Well if I say that she says "you think am I fighting" and again she fight with this
finickyViper0
If there's any signal problem in my place and I didn't pick her call , she fights
Samairah
2
You need to talk and sort things out with her.
Sunshineme
then you need totake stern measures as in tellher that you need pace and happiness in a relationship and if she cant give that then she should think about it
ferventCockatoo4
4
How old are u ?
ferventCockatoo4
2
Puberty changes occur She will get better
finickyViper0
Both 19
mercifulBurritos7
3
Dw talk to her and try to sort everything out!!
ferventCockatoo4
1
Puberty changes and insecurities could be the reason assure her of ur love
pitifulDunbird7
2
Same thing happening with me My bf is doing same behaviour like ur gf
finickyViper0
1
@pitifuldunbird7 we hope everything will end good
finickyViper0
1
I sufferings lot , she fights daily and she except to beg her continuously , if I did this daily then howbcan I read , but other than that she's good and best girl ever
pitifulDunbird7
4
I am tired now ... Why they behave like this
finickyViper0
1
Don't mistake me , and this are you more beautiful than him?
finickyViper0
1
in relationship if someone is more talented or beautiful than other there maay be insecurity
pitifulDunbird7
Yess
finickyViper0
How long you two been in relationship
pitifulDunbird7
2
We know they are perfect for us but for sometime they don't understand what's the partner feeling
pitifulDunbird7
2
From 2 yrs
pitifulDunbird7
1
And u
finickyViper0
1
Love is curse and bless , Either we can't live with them happily or we can't leave them
finickyViper0
2
Past 1.5 years
finickyViper0
1
Express him that you love him so much but the fight makes to feel its better to be alone , say him fight in between makes strong but if it turns more fight it will break both heart , all lest is pain
finickyViper0
1
Share him how you feel ! Make him listen to you for 10 mins straight , if he refused to listen send audio message , just say what's in your heart
pitifulDunbird7
Thanks
pitifulDunbird7
2
But I already did it
finickyViper0
1
Sorry I did many typing mistake
pitifulDunbird7
2
Same thing he is saying to me that I am fighting with hime
finickyViper0
1
Shall I ask you something ,if you break up him for two days , will he come to you , it's "no contact rule "
finickyViper0
1
How old are you both?
finickyViper0
1
Did you first met at school?
finickyViper0
1
Talk him about your sweet memories , your first meet , your proposal like that and last say him how happy was you then and how sad was you now
finickyViper0
1
Hey sister it's gonna be 11:11 wish for what you need , it eill come true
pitifulDunbird7
4
We both are 21 yrs old Ya we met in school but from last 2 yrs we r in a relationship. If i do break up with him.He is not able to serve the pain of breaking and by my side i cant do it beacuse I really love him I can't live without him.
finickyViper0
1
Same goes for me, my gf sufferings lot of pain ,her parents tortures her , now shes so injured , daily they beat her and not feed her , she was sufferings lot of pain only because she loved me , her parents knew about this thats why they are torturing her
finickyViper0
1
She was so beautiful so all boys are making proposal or tryin to impress her , all her friends abonded her, she has no friends , no family , nothing , I'm only for her , she smile only to me but she never realize this and picks fight with me , so she's not happy in all side , I try to make her happy but she will angry for everything which I didn't even did
finickyViper0
1
Who proposed first?
pitifulDunbird7
3
Love her more and more because she is going through very tough condition. Always be forever with her. Don't feel her that she is alone
pitifulDunbird7
2
He proposed me
finickyViper0
1
Thank you, I already love her so much , but she gets angry for everything , if she realize that, we will be happy forever ! , She's my child
finickyViper0
1
If he proposed you then you got advantage , just say him to share your love stroy from beginning , from when he loved you , and make him realize what he made you into
pitifulDunbird7
4
Yaa again I will do it
finickyViper0
1
I wish all your problem will end soon and you will get blessed life as you always wished , trust me everything gonna be like you wish , all your sufferings will change happiness, if someone wished for you , it's more stronger , it will come true , trust me big sis , trust the love ,
pitifulDunbird7
2
For u I will pray to god. God bless you
finickyViper0
1
Thank you big sis ,lemme know once if all your problems are gone and you are happy again

I'm in relationship right now. but I don't know why I don't like to stick with one guy. I like to explore.

troubledtuna7

Frustrating

So I lost my job last week and I got it through reference from someone..I told my parents about it and

pocoloco

help me please

i broke up with my gf 2 days ago and i isolated my self my phone is in flight mode although no body calls

shivam001

how do I change for the better?

im not a good person and I don't know how to fix that. I'm not a good daughter, I'm not a good girlfriend,

livys_crying

I am 16 and my mom beats me up because I ask her to go to my garden. I'm isolated and can't walk which

panickyhoopoe9