communication gap in relationship

Question

Hi I'm Indhu. I'm in a relationship with a guy since 5 months. At first he was very interested in me and was always been connected to me. But now he is so busy with his personal life and can't even have time to txt me. I don't know whether he is interested or not. Can u help mehh?

Sahitya-MG · Answer

Hi Indhu.  I am listening . Can you elaborate on what do you mean by ' he is so busy with his personal life'? And how long it's been  he is not texting you ?

Indhu · Answer

Like he is always busy spending time with his family and friends. I'm not asking him to give focus on me am just asking atleast talk to me when he's free. He txts once in 2 days nowadays. Already I've talked to him about this, he is saying that he miss me a lot and he really wanted  to talk to me but he is busy.. that's all.

Sahitya-MG · Answer

I understand your concern. Since lockdown is a stressful period for many of us. Where there is no definite routine to follow. You have try to understand may be he is just taking some time of for himself by keeping himself occupied with Friends and family. You can try to express how you feel to him when you are not given the attention. And give him space to revert you back at his own pace. At the same time it would be great if you try to keep yourself occupied with some work or do something you love to do. So that when he reverts back you have something good to share.

Indhu · Answer

Thank u so much

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?