communication gap in relationship

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Hi, I met this girl in my office. We became close friends and after 6 months I fell in love and fortunately she too felt the same or so I felt. Initially we were talking daily and we were totally together. But after 4 months she started distancing herself. Now she doesn't even talk properly. She is giving excuses all the time when the same was not an issue initially. And whenever I bring up this she is blowing me off completely saying it's nothing and she is just not feeling well mentally. But she is completely ignoring me and I feel all alone and depressed suddenly. I am not able to focus on important things in my life. What should I do?

hb96

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Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. First of all you should not rely on someone for your happiness. Try to talk to that person once talk about your feelings and ask her about her feelings, and talk about how you both can mutually work things out. Be assertive that this has been effecting you. At the same time set goals for yourself. You will have to put in conscious efforts to distract your mind. What are the things in your priority list?
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hb96
I have my exams coming up in 90 days. And i have not even started my preparations yet. I have never failed and even then this is the most important exam of my life. I need to clear this for my better future. Even though i can understand all this i am still not able to concentrate as her actions and her ignoring me is all i can think about. I know i have always cared for her. I tried talking to her but everytime she just keeps blowing that conversation away saying she is busy or even she is not in a good place right now. And she says its not got anything to do with me. I am unable to eat properly. I am unable to sleep properly.
Zoya Ahmad
Right now your focus should only be your studies. Please try to focus on that for now. Fix a schedule and follow it.
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hb96
I m trying. but unfortunately its seems so difficult. and the worst part is i have experienced anything like this before. i have always been able to concentrate in so many tough situatikns before but this time it seems so difficult and impossible too. how do i do this? and what should i do about my love? is it even love?
Zoya Ahmad
It could be attraction, infatuation or anything. But right now the reality is you can not go back to it. Try to accept the change. It will hurt, acknowledge the feeling and it’s okay to feel this way. It shows that you have invested your 100% and your feelings were true. It’s okay, whatever you did you gave your full. That’s what matters the most.
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Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
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