Communication gap in relationship

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I have always loved my husband. He also loves me. But today he did something that had hurt me a lot. I am 8 months pregnant from few days I am staying with my parents. I told him let's go to doctor on this Thursday and after that I will stay with you for few days and then will go back to my parents.listening to this he got irritated and told me every weekend you keep me engaged and I am not getting time for my friends. This has really hurt me. I am crying since two hours. I feel he doesn't love me anymore only thing important to him is his friends. What should I do? I am staying with my parents and they will get upset if I take any big decision. I am really hurt. Please help

shobhi29

7 Answers
goofyChile8
1
Try to talk to him tomorrow about this, that you don’t want to invade his personal space but you also need time for this relationship.
shobhi29
Thanks. But this time his priority should be my heath. Don't you agree. We are in relationship since 10 ,years. And 3.5 years of marriage. At this stage I am scared how could he ignore his responsibility
Samairah
2
Talk to him and sort it out. Also, don’t let negative thoughts come in your head as it’s a very important time in your life
grudgingBuck
4
i know its a crucial time just ignore him right now ....write this in your dairy .... maybe in future when he needs u specially just say that i got to chill with my friend ....repeat the things he said to u ..... after he deals with the matter alone and comes back to u to start an argument just send the picture of that dairy ....and say that atleast u are not pregnent ....
grudgingBuck
3
I mean this is to childish to behave like this when one is pregnent .... he should learn a lesson...do this only if u want to ....i am not forcing u
euphoricChamois7
4
This thing is very upsetting to hear . Right now his main priority should be you and your child .he should understand that carrying a child inside you is not an easy task to do. Just talk to him and discuss about this chlid .
shobhi29
Thank a lot everyone for your comments. I am sure he doesn't loves me now. His only priority in life is his friends and party. I never expected this will happen with me. I am only worried about my family. There are issues going on my brother's marriage also and then me. I just wish to behave normal in front of my parents.