communication gap in relationship

Relationship Issues

He says he loves me.... Bit he doesn't spend time with me... He can't make time for me... But he does other things from which I can't leave him... He is also a good guy... But he can't make time for me... When we text he only replies to my text.... But he doesn't text.... Nor is he free to make any video chats... When he can speak to other girls online... But yea i dont feel insecure cause i can't control anyone... That's wrong... I can't control him... It's his life and he should live it to the fullest.... But I am confused about how I should make him to talk to me like how he used to do before... I miss that side of him... I need your advice...

Sinchana

1 Answers

hansa_shaunik

We all have our own ways of feeling loved. Others may not always share that. Like you said, he may not spend time with you but there are others things he does to show that he loves you. But yet you are unhappy because your love language is quality time. That means that you feel loved the most when the person spends time with you. It may help to express how important that is for you. Furthermore, try to understand what his language could be and try to express love in a way he values. Rarely is it ever the same for two people. Here is a link for better insight https://cratedwithlove.com/blog/five-love-languages-and-what-they-mean/ I would suggest that you also consider reading the book The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman.

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