Confidence issues in a relationship

Question

Hey I've been dating an amazing girl for around 8 months now. She's basically perfect on paper and is hands down the best person I've ever met but she's so great that I feel like she's out if my league. I can't understand why she'd pick somebody like me. I'm very average in terms of everything compared to her, she's both smarter and better looking than me. This always makes me feel like she'll leave me for someone else and the attention she gets from other guys makes me feel very insecure about myself. How do I not self sabotage in this situation?

wingedPepper3 · Answer

If she's in dating you for 8 months then she's clearly not just doing it without a reason. If you've got a good thing then you try your best to keep I in your life instead of worrying why you got it in the first place.

anonyg · Answer

We can't see ourselves the way people who love us can. She must've seen something in you which made her pick you out of all the people out there. Trust her through things, if she decides to leave some day then no amount of controlling is going to stop her anyway so the best thing you can do is be a good partner.

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