Confused!!

Question

it’s been 8 months ..we started texting each other then we met in colleg.… she is my classmate.… we keep talking like without limits .. she gets jealous if i talk to some other girls or i flirt with others.… I get jealous too.… she cries when I ignore her and I feel bad When She’s busy.… i know I’ve been thinking about her all day.… maybe she does too.… We say We love each other but we never asked.… “love in a friendly way?” or in a different way ! .. should I confess or should I wait ??

Recovering_babe · Answer

just let her know your true feelings!! sounds like they're two sides.

nikki30 · Answer

u knw u should copy paste this one and send it too her... i feel she is so lucky ...

Vai · Answer

it's there two ways as per u r saying, but then give clarity over things and then proceed.. u be urself clear and even give her clarity ..

Therealmrin · Answer

@recovering_babe I know she loves me but as a friend or as something else !! I don’t know but No Friend calls u in 3 AM and no friend holds your hand and lean her head in your Shoulder 🙂🙂

Therealmrin · Answer

@Vai @nikki30  I am afraid if I confes.… I’ll lose the friendship

Vai · Answer

u just normally ask whether she likes someone or she has certain feelings for someone, also ask y u get jealous when I flirt n all with other girls n if she denies I am not jealous then say I get jealous n I have told u, even u have reacted over things that shows u r Jealous, N make her feel comfortable, just normally ask her in casual way n u trying knowing her feelings n try making it clear.. do make her comfortable too

siri42 · Answer

you know it's actually better to confess thats how me and my boyfriend got along he used to flirt with and give me hints I also do have feelings for him so I asked him directly he said yes and thats how things actually happen if you don't confess and hang to things.... situations get bad and for some reasons opinions change so it's better to directly ask her. What ever her answer is you should take it may be you'll lose friendship atleast you'll live in peace with some clarity in your mind right.

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?