i was there in your position. where this guy used to treat me nice. but he used to rarely call me or meet me. in his priority list I was at the bottom. these things used to bother me. but instead I gave myself excuses in his behalf. i was trying really hard to understand this guy. but there was something inside me who wasn't happy. i felt somewhere that if he really wanted to.. he could've somehow. but still because I was attracted to that guy and at that time was very lonely. i still am lonely though. i invested my 1 yr in this situationship. I got used to him not being always there. but I had that feeling that atleast I have someone by my side. after a yr this guy dumped me saying he doesn't love me anymore. so this confused relationship costed me my one yr. I would suggest simply confront him, tell him what's bothering you. if he actually wants to work there it's good. if not so you deserve to be treated better. also if a relationship constantly make you feel confused then it's a big red flag. take care❤️

can't have a successful relationship if u aren't comfortable with ur self like knowing and loving who u are as a person cuz once u do tht u wouldn't mine being alone u actually love ur own company u can't hold on to this guy simply cuz ur scared to be alone self discovery is very important

alertlard9 thanks for ur story but i don't know what to do how to handle this situation i don't want to end up being along for ever every day iam diying out od it i feel like killing myself