There is this guy, we're not in a relationship yet but we're getting there. He says he loves me and he's ready for a relationship but says he doesn't have time. That is why I'm really confused about a relationship with him. We're very close but this thing really bothers me. Its always me calling him and he never makes an effort and whenever I confornt him for this, he says he's really busy and has no time. He always goes out with his friends and has no time for me. Is it because his friends are there but I'm not there? I'm really confused.