confused about a guy wether to be in a relationship or not
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confused about a guy wether to be in a relationship or not

I'm Nirati,and my problem is one guy is very cute and caring and he loves me and told me that he will be with me forever and wanted to marry me in future...but I never got such feelings..he said that I should take my time to think...but don't wanna think of it...we both are of same age group (19)...but I don't want any relationship...so please advise me how to convince him not to force me to get into any relation 😶

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    Nirati
    We started chatting on Instagram...
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    Nirati
    Should I block him??
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    Sahitya MG
    Hi Nirati. I invite you to be assertive to him and tell him that you are not interested in having any relationship .Being assertive is not being rude . it's just being putting your point firmly. Voicing out how you feel will help as well as the guy not to build any hopes.
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    Nirati
    Ok ma'am,but if he will not understand then should I block him?
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    Sahitya MG
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    Nirati it would be great if you try to analyse his bond with you and take informed decision.
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    Nirati
    Ma'am he is not understanding that I don't wanna be in relationship...so I had blocked him from everywhere..had I done right or wrong?
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    Sahitya MG
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    Nirati as yourself how are you feeling after blocking him? If it's giving certain amout of peace and good mental health they you might moving in the right direction.
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    Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
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    Nirati
    I'm feeling very free and happy no burden of having relationship now I'm focusing on my studies.. but I found a new fear if in future come in front of me and will ask why I blocked him.. what should I give answer..
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    Sahitya MG
    Nirati it would be great if you try to be in the present and enjoy the present. Making assumptions about future will only give you unwanted anxiety. As you mentioned you feel very free and happy and are focusing on studies. Keep that zeal and keep it going.
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    Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
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    truthfulCrane3
    Ur too young to fall in a committed relationship just go with the flow a focus on ur currier
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