My life decisions regarding my career were taken up by my parents or guardian till 10th grade. From there on I was asked to choose whatever I wanna be and persuade that ( well ofcourse only in academics, that's the only choice a middle class student gets ). I did not have any likes or dislikes or say I never knew what i wanted to be because the only thing i learnt from last 16 years was to be a good son did what my guardians told me to do. Today i am 20 years old and still confused what i want to be. At morning I am pursuing my grandfather's dream to become an administrative officer, By the day I become a business man ( getting that one from my dad ) By the evening I become a Model,athlete,etc. How do one decide what they want to be? How do one be so sure that they would succeed?