confused about getting married or not because of fiance's qualification

In the last two weeks our therapists have answered 211 queries related to mental health.

General Query

My engagement done last month ,but after that I came to know that he is not so welleducated,now i dont want to marry him,but my family says that education doesn't matter money does.i am not happy with this relation but about thinking my parents reputation i have marry him thats why i am very stress and depressd.

Jully1dsouza

12 Answers
shikha_ss
1
u should tell this problem to your fiance....
strengthuforget
1
heyyy don't worry keep in mind because it happened and you cant do anything about it stop worrying start being optimistic thinking everything happens for a reason
Zoya Ahmad
1
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. Marriage is a lifetime commitment, if you are not sure about it, then discuss with your family. Everyone’s priority is different and for you education matters. Think through about this. No one will responsible for you being unhappy in the marriage later. It’s you who need to decide what you want for yourself.
Disclaimer:-
Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
ExpertBook Appointment
Jully1dsouza
I Think My family dosen't care whether i am happy or not .
Jully1dsouza
I have to spend my whole life with compromise thats it
Zoya Ahmad
Did you talk to them?
Disclaimer:-
Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
ExpertBook Appointment
Jully1dsouza
Yes I tried.
Zoya Ahmad
What arguments did you give? What was there response?
Disclaimer:-
Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
ExpertBook Appointment
Jully1dsouza
1
Uske pass degree hai BE ki lekin sirf nam ki, vo alag hi field mai kam karta hai, ghar vale bolte hai ki tum dono milke kamao aur unke pass to kheti badi y ,sabkuch hai vagaira vagaira ...lekin jo meri expectation thi education ki vo hi nai hai uske pass,hum jab chating karte the tab mujhe samjh me aya ki iski typing mai itani spelling mistakes kyo hai
Zoya Ahmad
Aapko lagta hai ki aap iss cheez k saath adjust krpaoge?
Disclaimer:-
Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
ExpertBook Appointment
Jully1dsouza
I don't know, filhal to iam not happy with this relation, hamesha aisa lagta hai ki galat decision le liya. Lekin adjust karne ke alawa koi option bhi nai hai mere pss
Zoya Ahmad
Aap apne fiance se baat krke dekhiye, padhai ko lekr ab unke kya vichaar hain ye puchiye. Aap unko grwo krne me madad krskti hain. Aap wo pasand hain?
Disclaimer:-
Nature of all the advices provided on this platform including Expert’s are for general information only because complete detailed clinical work up of individual not done. These advices in their all aspects are not substitute for Professional Medical Consultation and are not valid for MLC (Medico-Legal cases). All individuals are advised to consult nearest specialists.
ExpertBook Appointment