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I truly can't stop thinking about my gf, ik over the period of time it'll settle off..... we always have fights over lil things...... I'm not sure how to tackle this.....i feel like i can't have any friends apart from her.....i feel like my life good being controlled..... I'm the one who is always being doubted even if I'm transparent from my end and having a true intend towards her......i fail to understand what wrong have i done!? kindly help guys!

happyguy12 · Answer

maybe you should try having an honest conversation with her and discuss all your problems . if she invalidates all ur feelings and emotions ,maybe its time to move on.

skylar · Answer

you'll never stop thinking dude, you are a human(alive) dude . u won't ever forget her, but with time and efforts - Ull simply embrace her memories(both good and bad ) and move on.... u'll ve better priorities to think about. best of luck.

shivang · Answer

1 and last honest conversation if things workout then great if not, move on without any regret

shivang · Answer

Sirf ek effort se relationship nahi chalta dono side effort ki need hoti hai

skylar · Answer

uh.. did you like edit this post? I swear when I saw this, it was only showing half! 😑

winterfell · Answer

nope i didn't edit @skylar

winterfell · Answer

your right@shivang

winterfell · Answer

I've tried having conversations being entirely transperent but somewhere down the line there ain't no trust which will eventually ruin it all

winterfell · Answer

i know can't ever stop thinking as long as I'm alive.... but what i fail to understand is even after me being transparent about everything why aren't things being understood from the other end

skylar · Answer

@winterfell without trust, respect and loyalty there's no love Or neither relationship will sustain.

skylar · Answer

it's not our fault, @wintefell sometimes the effort from us on our side is not reciprocated by them... it's just human defect sadly 🙂 - we can't do really about that. just be cautious while  putting ur  whole trust and love on someone..

winterfell · Answer

thanks a lot guys

winterfell · Answer

much love

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Need someone to talk to!!

not able to accept my reality !!

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