I m loving a girl, I want to spend life with her. I proposed her and I asked her to give her opinion .I told her that we will plan our future for our compatibility.After somedays when I asked she is not confirming me whether she likes me Or not. But she says she don't want discussions like this at present. I don't know what to react. But what I fear the most is, if she use me for some days and marry some other guy, I can't bear that pain. I don't know what to do. any suggestions

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_luckyme_ · Answer

OK so there can be Two options first that she doesn't like u that much to marry you or simply she is right now not ready for marriage and the second one would be that maybe she might think that at the time it is not the right thing to do as she might have other obligations towards her family or career plus marriage is not a simple thing for some people my suggestion to you would be that try talking to her and tell her how you feel and listen to her that whats troubling her to decide

Idonotknow · Answer

I m also not forcing her to marry right now. She is telling that marriage proposals are coming for her and she trying hard to reject them. So I m started getting fear that I would lose her. I told her , we will discuss our future plan, whatever she wants me to do, I m ready to choose that profession so that our relationship will be compatible. But she want to marry in next 3 years. But when I ask to discuss about our future. She tells she don't want any discussions about this at present

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?