I feel kinda betrayed and cynical due to a recent incident. A person who's been my friend for the longest period of time-14 years- hid the fact that she is going to abroad for an indefinite time from me even though she shared it with others from our group and even met them before going away. Even my best friend for the past 2 years lied to me to cover up the meeting. I get it that sometimes we don't matter as much in some people's lives as much as they do in ours. But how the hell do I face that?? How do I accept the reality when I based this past year thinking that they were the closest I ever got to people.... I mean, she could've at least given some hints? That's a big thing to keep secrets about