i don't like to speak to few of my relatives due to their interfering nature. There are certain things which is to kept personal within a family. Also few months back i experienced a situation where what they said was quite insulting for my dignity. i didn't respond back thinking they are elder to me but that feeling of insult and not speaking up is still there back in my mind. what i should do in such a situation? refrain talking to them or talk to them thinking they are elder to me in their oldage year?