hi, I'm facing difficulty with my relationship. whenever a problem come to my gf. she won't tell me what it is. even i asked she simply tells don't ask me. eventhough i tried to talk different things to cool her. she won't respond. it happens ever time she face something. what do i do. please advice me

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happyguy12 · Answer

seems like she has communication problem . tell her that if she doesnt want to communicate properly, this rs might end very soon. without communication, you two can never be together

rex · Answer

yeah I'm keeping telling her. she won't listen. she want me to speak with her. I'm trying but i couldn't do that

skylar · Answer

It can be a range of things.... but first thing - you haven't done something to offend her, right?

rex · Answer

yeah i didn't do anything

rex · Answer

what would you do if your partner behave like this. first thing comes to your mind is asking what was the problem right?

skylar · Answer

did you guys fight or had disagreements? if not, then it's probably nothing just simply be there for her, divert her mind and make her happy.

happyguy12 · Answer

@rex , my partner was lowkey exactly like this but she is changing slowly nowadays .we used to have several arguments just because she never told me any problem she was facing and later onsome day she used to throw all her anger at once. later on, she realised this issue and now slowly trying to change it.

happyguy12 · Answer

what i did was to keep calm and whenever we used to have arguments, i never got angry or told her anything mean which could've led to breaking up

skylar · Answer

may God bless u guys heart!! at least u both are making effects to understand ur partner....

rex · Answer

it might be me... I'm not a good talker... I'm kind of shy type... i hesitate to talk...in time like this... i couldn't divert her l.. but my mind is around her problem which she won't tell what it is i couldn't speak without knowing it. she always accuse me that I'm not speaking well..

skylar · Answer

how long have u been noticing this?

rex · Answer

nearly a year

skylar · Answer

take her out some day, make sure u both are calm, then ask her...

rex · Answer

we're in long distance relationship 😔

aesthetic21pretty · Answer

as a girl I think just stop trying to solve her problems instead make her feel you are always there for her and just don't talk about problem if she don't want to tell you probably she want to avoid the whole thing so don't make it hard for her just be calm and make her feel you're always there and she can trust you.

skylar · Answer

best of luck buddy, you're gonna need it @ rex

Recovering_babe · Answer

it's hard for some people to open up. Give her the space she needs and she will open up at her will. these things can't be speed up or forced. right? you will have to be patient.

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?