not a relationship... it's a friendship... I don't want to lose anyone... but i have that fear
Abraham
same in the case of friendship too
Recovering_babe
1
losing someone is something you cannot control. you just let go of the things you cannot control.
Abraham
Why are you afraid of losing?
mitu2
just because of a past experience
mitu2
now I have 2 good friends... but sometime I think that will i hurt them or they will leave me like the last frnd... bcs almost every good friend of mine leave me... don't know why?
Abraham
Analyze all the friendships you had so far and then try to find out where you made mistakes, if you can find out that try to correct that mistake then you will be able to move forward in future friendships.
Abraham
1
It is better not to depend too much on friends
mitu2
I got your point... but past friends leave me just bcs they got new friends or a relationship... I don't have any regret but i still have that fear
Abraham
There is a tendency in these days that when it comes to relationships, people forget everything else and stick to it. That is something we cannot control, So it is better not to depend too much on friendship.
mitu2
1
got it... thank you so much for the help 😊
mitu2
1
hope you are doing good?
skylar
depends on where ur fear of losing people come from?
Abraham
tbh not feeling good 😂
mitu2
bcs of insecurities
mitu2
why?
skylar
what kind of insecurities?
Abraham
jus kidding am okay 🤜
mitu2
sure @abraham ?
mitu2
nothing just want all of them to be happy... don't want them to cry for a relationship or a friend... don't want them to be in a toxic relationship because they already had a toxic past
Abraham
If you are afraid of losing a friend, overcome that fear by making new friends, then even if you lose some friends, you will have someone else as your backup.
mitu2
I am a introvert so it's so tough for me to make a friend... and I already had a worst friendship bcs of that i lost peace, sleep, concentration, and many more... so now no more fake friends
Abraham
Of course, if I have any problems now I post it here and I get someone to support me and get some relief from it. So I am happy.
mitu2
yeah... so be happy and positive 😊...
Abraham
You are your greatest friend. You clearly know all the limitations & weakness you have, if you try to improve your character a little more, you will definitely have a better social life.
mitu2
1
thank you so much for this motivation.. I will try to improve myself 😇
Abraham
1
try to love yourself more than anything 🤜
mitu2
1
sure I will😊...
strangename
u lose someone to get someone else. think abt it seriously 🐱
