why do we want people's pity/sympathy? Sometimes i want the person' attention so i just do something which can make them worry abt me it makes me feel good when someone worries abt me i feel like they care for me but in a way this is exhausting emotionally. how to be strong emotionally step by step any tips. how to be confident abt myself like how to start loving myself once again so that i don't try to earn people's pity/sympathy

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cockylizard3 · Answer

hey bro ..that's basic human nature..

cockylizard3 · Answer

u need to be particular about things and people initially u may suffer cause that will ne new situation for u but later on u'll get strong

cockylizard3 · Answer

maybe you disagree...with me

cockylizard3 · Answer

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peskyswift4 · Answer

yeah what u say might be right it takes time and i might suffer but i will grow stronger thanks hehe 🤗 i feel relieved right now 😊

cockylizard3 · Answer

lol don't know why your reply seems so fake like your are just tired from everything and trying to be nice for the sake of balance..

peskyswift4 · Answer

i itself don't know what i am feeling but i think this will pass too i am not sure

peskyswift4 · Answer

i might be just reassuring myself now that things will become better as time goes

cockylizard3 · Answer

@peskyswift4 hope so ..I'll just say

peskyswift4 · Answer

yeah i hope so too

cockylizard3 · Answer

but yeah just hope isn't enough..u know..

cockylizard3 · Answer

u need to work on some changes

help me please

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