I always feel depressed from my breakup which happened 4 years ago

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cuteaddict27 · Answer

hey try to find happiness in yourself and try to believe in love again and be optimistic

relieveddoves5 · Answer

I tried but the relationship am in right now is really not helping

cuteaddict27 · Answer

I think you should be after your happiness and don't be held back because you don't want to hurt the person make yourself priority and be happy

relieveddoves5 · Answer

I really try to be happy but it always seems am drowning the more,every single time it crossed my mind,I always feel like my heart want to pup out

relieveddoves5 · Answer

and the relationship am into right now,I tried to get out of it but it very difficult

cuteaddict27 · Answer

how difficult

cuteaddict27 · Answer

are you being held down in any way

cuteaddict27 · Answer

hey please you have right to freedom right to your own decision right to be happy don't feel less of yourself tell yourself I deserve to be happy

relieveddoves5 · Answer

he always tell me not to leave him, especially when he is in a difficult situation,(example) financial problem and other stuff

relieveddoves5 · Answer

everytime I try to leave he always tell me that I don't love him that why am leaving and I hate to see anyone cry

cuteaddict27 · Answer

don't sacrifice your happiness for someone else and if you know he truly loves you and you don't have second mind about the relationship tell him how you feel tell him to love you better and let him help you find happiness in yourself and whatever you have

relieveddoves5 · Answer

and to make it worse I have nowhere to go to

relieveddoves5 · Answer

I always talk to him,but every conversation always lead to a fight

relieveddoves5 · Answer

each time I pour out my mind,it always as if something pinch him

cuteaddict27 · Answer

do you live with him?

relieveddoves5 · Answer

yes I live with him

cuteaddict27 · Answer

do you have friends where you can squat or something or at least save up to get a place because if you try leaving he will use the fact that you guys are leaving together and make you feel indebted

relieveddoves5 · Answer

am the type that don't make friends but am trying to save up some money to get a place

cuteaddict27 · Answer

please do okay for the main time endure find happiness in yourself, work hard and focus more on yourself and your happiness

cuteaddict27 · Answer

your happiness matter tell yourself self-affirmation you are meant to be happy you deserve to be happy you deserve the best you are worth it no matter how the past was okay please keep smiling start seeing the best and good in yourself

help me please

how do I change for the better?

difficult tym after breakup