am pregnant the person am pregnant for doesnt see me as a lover he jus uses me as his escape goat from his babymama... i need advice my nights are full of tears

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boastfulshads7 · Answer

hii

boastfulshads7 · Answer

does that person have a wife already?

pumpie · Answer

they separated but anthing he does am always the last person he tells

boastfulshads7 · Answer

do they truly separated?

boastfulshads7 · Answer

did you tell him you're pregnant?

pumpie · Answer

he knows am pregnant he stays with me but constant communication with his baby mama

boastfulshads7 · Answer

okay... first of all.. do you want to keep this baby?

boastfulshads7 · Answer

let me tell you my story, my one of the friend, had an affair with already married man. that man had 3 child. he never told her. spent money a lottt. later she came to know and then he made a lie that they got separated. and again he was caught after 3 years, when she got pregnant and asked for marriage.

boastfulshads7 · Answer

he was constantly lying and at the end left her because and choosed his wife and children

pumpie · Answer

am almost four months but i wanna die i jus cant live anymore everything is shuttered

boastfulshads7 · Answer

so you've to be wise here that whether the person really wants you or not.. if he's not.. please you've to take a tough decision

boastfulshads7 · Answer

hey pumpie, i know it's tough but you can get what you want

boastfulshads7 · Answer

I know it's tough but you're tougher

boastfulshads7 · Answer

have a peaceful conversation with the man and ask what does he want

boastfulshads7 · Answer

you know, do tell him how do you feel

pumpie · Answer

i cant i jus want to die

boastfulshads7 · Answer

maybe this is going to help you.. many complicated things can be sorted out by establishing communication

boastfulshads7 · Answer

maybe, he loves you but he's figuring out things with his wife

boastfulshads7 · Answer

and dying isn't option

pumpie · Answer

my life is shuttered i jus dont know i want to abort buh i fear i wish i could jus have a miscarriage

boastfulshads7 · Answer

okay, so please go through a proper abortion procedure

boastfulshads7 · Answer

you've to worry about nothing, our medical sc. is very very developed

boastfulshads7 · Answer

you don't have to fear about anything girl

boastfulshads7 · Answer

see, first of all sort things of your body

boastfulshads7 · Answer

go to a proper procedure of abortin... if possible keep a close friend with you... and then after decide, what to do with this man

boastfulshads7 · Answer

and your life isn't shattered babe

boastfulshads7 · Answer

you're just fighting from a tough phase which is going to make you stronger than ever❤️

pumpie · Answer

okay thanks dear

boastfulshads7 · Answer

i love you pumpie❤️

boastfulshads7 · Answer

i know it's tough but please do let me know after the abortion are done... I'll be waiting for the good news

boastfulshads7 · Answer

then we'll decide what to do with this man and your beautiful life

boastfulshads7 · Answer

all the very best

pumpie · Answer

i ll let you know

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