Dead Dad

Question

I'm a 16 year old. I lost my dad during the covid 19 delta wave in 2021. after that, I haven't been able to come back to normal life. it has messed me up internally and I find it impossible to concentrate on things. my grades have  been falling and all entrance exams are near. I'm in 12th grade, so I have boards too. the only person keeping me sane is my mom but she has been falling sick lately. it worries me out of my mind. plus I recently started having feelings for someone and I confessed them to him. his reaction was good, but we haven't been talking since. I don't know how to talk to him. I really want to, because after a good 2 years, talking to him gave me a glimpse of life before covid.  I would really appreciate any kind of help, really!

saddodo07 · Answer

hi there i am also 16 and loosing someone i love in such a dificult time would devastate me. but i think anyone i lost would not have wanted me to feel droke and depressed. i would tgink solely of their good memories so were ever they are right now they wont have to worry about me. its hard to give advice on this because i havent gone through it but please think of only the good times and if you ever think of something bad just smile shack ur head and smile because im sure ur dad wouldnt want you to be feeling down

saddodo07 · Answer

also why not make a tradition that involves his memory. like doing something he loves at a certain time of day or even year. you can feel closer and more at ease when you know you are doing what would make the laugh or feel touched and in all make them any yourself happy. i wanna hug u so bad and tell u it ok buy right now you've got to find hour happiness on your own and im heare cheering you on 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

thriftytuna3 · Answer

hi, I also just lost my dad and it hurts so bad. I still don't know how to overcome this. but I believe it will be better one day... We Got this💪💪

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