depressed about unexplained break up

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hey. its been a really tough journey. and now I have been hit by its reality. I have been made to wait for someone who replaced me without even letting me know about it. its just after 6 months that now I know about it. that person was my saviour at that time who accepted me for who i was. but he left without a sorry saying that I am not fun because I am introvert. I dont have a single friend .. and the only one i had betrayed me. I dont understand my life. My family life is already horrible and the person who promised me and made me feel so secure at that time now is gone and left me waiting .. I was not even aware about someone new ..

numbsoul

4 Answers
hashbrown
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Hey, This is really heartbreaking to even, I am sure you must be feeling even more devasted. Everyone deserves closure. I am glad that you got to know what kind of person he is, he is looking for superficial things. not for someone as real as you. Try to accept this and understand that you deserve better.
Aayushia51
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It’s heartbreaking but good for you and his loss, not your fault. You deserve someone better not him for sure. Just enjoy your life and think about yourself
numbsoul
I do hope to find some ray.. but it scares me because the traumas that I have had since childhood is yet to escape from my life and then came this situation which has erased my every emotions and stripped me away of the happiness that I thought were the best in my life. they were little for about 4 years but mean so much to me. and now I am forced to erase them. I hope to escape these someday. and not end it instantly of fear..
Aayushia51
See your past shouldn’t define your present or future. We all have our baggage but then see from the stand point that if it didn’t mean anything to him then you clearly know he doesn’t deserve you. I’m pretty sure you will get someone who will value you. When I was through my break up, I did everything I wanted to do and taught me self love. It got my mind of him, try it

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