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I always feel depressed, and lonely. I have no passion nor do I have any talent. I am not even a hard-worker. I feel very demotivated and lethargic all the time. I'm am in my 3rd year of my bachelor's and still don't know what I will do next. Everybody around me is doing something or the other but I don't feel like doing anything. I hate what I'm studying currently and want to die. Literally every body in my family is either a doc or an engineer. I have always felt like a failure, loser, worthless. My mom and dad always keeps fighting. They never understand me or my feelings. I just want to quit.

rainofmySoul

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Samairah
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It's okay we are not suppose to figure out everything and if everyone in your family is a engineer or doctor then it's good your doing something different. Coming to the topic of your parents, you need to tell them this fights of theirs is disrupting your mental peace. Either they can take their fight outside or learn to stay together peacefully
ELFC2020
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Do you have any career options in mind? Have you been researching something? Try to do so, and talk to your parents about how their fights have been bothering you.
rainofmySoul
I have tries to talk to my parents about this but they never listen to me. Once they start they keep on fighting, also I'm not very good at communication.
rainofmySoul
And I've done the research but I didn't like the career options I got. I always wanted to be a travel vlogger but my english fluency is not good and I feel anxious whenever I try to speak infront of the camera. Also my mom and dad doesn't think travel vlogging is a real occupation or its going to earn me any money. They are always telling me how i should either do a government job or be a teacher because according to them these are the best and only options I have and I am not capable of doing anything else considering the fact that I'm lazy. But this is not something that I want to do.
rainofmySoul
I know half of my problems will solve if I can get out of this house, this city. I wanted to do my pg in a different city but our financial condition is very poor at the moment, also non of my parents want me to study in a different city especially my mom because she is being selfish as she cannot live alone.

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