Chinni, I'm so sorry to hear that. You must be terribly heartbroken. I know it is really painful and you really want him in your life, but one cannot force another. When settling down with someone, it is important that the person be someone who can fight for the relationship if needed. It seems like he was not up for that. That must really hurt. The best thing you can and do is try to heal from this. Itay take some time, but you will heal. Stay strong. I know it seems like you cannot live without him and that nothing has any meaning. But there is more to you. A LOT more. Please focus on loving yourself and working on your self esteem. The more you grow as a person from a space of self compassion, the better able you will be to move on from this. If it gets too much, reach out for professional help. Give yourself the love and care needed to sail through this. Take care.

Hello Chinni, If you keep on thinking about him then it will only make the situation worse. He has moved on and now its your turn. You must remember that you can shape your life according to you. You should start by deviating from his thoughts by watching a series or picking some activity. Start following a schedule. I know its better said than done but you have to think for yourself. Just think from a third person perspective that what would you have suggested if you were seeing some friend in this situation and try to follow that suggestion.