Actually same thing happens with my mom. She have tolerated all these things for 22 years and now she is in depression. She is having medicine for that. You are mordern woman who knows her rights. Don't let them torture you. Talk to your husband. Politely tell him what's going on in your life. Make him understand you. Sometimes its our overthinking that makes you feel like that. But have courage queen. You can do it. Don't tolerate it. If things go wrong, leave him. Stand on your feet so that nobody could let you down. You are not born to please anybody. Think about your child and speak about it..

Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you. Have you tried understanding what's the reason behind it? Also how about involving your side of the family for intervention.