This breaks my heart for you. It pains me to read this in view of the fact that I've been telling people I don't want children. Not knowing that there are people out there who want children but can't have. They were both in the wrong and what they did is unfair to you. The woman he impregnated is most probably scared to confront you, not knowing how you might respond towards her. At the same time it's no excuse. Your partner on the other hand should've voiced his frustration of wanting a family, unfortunately he chose someone else because of the situation. Again, not an excuse. Nobody can tell you what to do and how to feel, in this case I suggest you speak to your partner. Find out if he still feels the same about you since you are still with him cause you love him. Find out if he still wants to be with you, if he does then he needs to take accountability of his own actions. An apology won't fix everything but it's a start right? I would be concerned too if nothing is being said. You need to figure out what's best for you in terms of staying or leaving this situation. Remember that you are human, you go through emotions like everybody else no matter what age! We all need someone to talk to and you my dear deserve answers. Keep well and know that God is watching

I am sorry to hear this, you must be going through a lot. This isn’t easy to accept. What he did was completely wrong. Have you tried talking to him and expressing your anger? Get your family involved in it.

Prettyconfusedgirl..I talked with him n he did apologize and told me it was a mistake I once met with the girl we talked but she never apologized on the other hand my partner apologized and is trying to be a better man for me but I just can't get over the fact that he was unloyal and I would never be able to give him a first born

T-India it's been really tough few months it's not easy to just accept and get along with life we talked he seemed sorry and apologetic and has been trying to fix things I tried involving the family but you know they are on his side saying it was a mistake but my mom on the other hand wants me to break up with him cause if he truly loved me he wouldn't have done what he did