depression and issues with husband because of staying at in-laws place. having regular quarrels effect can be evidently seen like major weight loss

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depression and issues with husband because of staying at in-laws place. having regular quarrels effect can be evidently seen like major weight loss

This pandemic has forced me to stay in my in laws place for more than a year. we had a lot of conflicts in the past which makes me not comfortable at to stay here. ive lost my freedom, privacy with my husband. I have to be conscious and cant be real all the time. This has led me to stress, overthinking, anxiety, dizzy, blank, fights with husband almost everyday. People be around me all the time that i dont have my privacy or can be real. This stress has made me lose a lot of weight and i am breaking down. Everyone who sees me shows pity on my weight loss. My husband loves me, but never understands me in this issue alone. I know every married women goes through the same kind of situation. But pls help me to stop stressing over and overthinking

Irene

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Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure this must have affected you. Have you tried discussing about how you feel with your husband?
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Irene
yes a lot lf times. but he wouldnt do anything.
Azaan
Hey! First of all its gentle reminder that pandemic will end soon so will be your anxiety. Its totally okie to feel low and blank. And your husband loves you ,it should solve half of your problm. And he will not understnd you bcoz of neither have he gone through it and nor you can explain it in words to him as its the unexplainable vibes you feel. Try talking to him again even if he wouldnt do anythng of it, sharing it would help you. If you dont share it then it would remain there in your head and it will just build strong. # Hope we would come through this soon
Irene
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Yes . i will try my best . have been trying to come out of this for a year now. Thank you so much Azaan
Azaan
Just try speaking it out..it helps when ppl are out there to listen to you
Zoya Ahmad
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Very well suggested by Azaan. Talk about it and try to make your husband understand that you just need some personal space. Try to rekindle your relationship with him. Take it as a temporary visit you will soon be at your place and things will be back to normal. Try to avoid quarrelsome situation as much as possible. Give yourself some time too.
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Azaan
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Tq zoya Ahmad . I realize how good you may feel whn ppl shw uh gratitude for the service you do. Even im going through tuff tym and trying to help someone out here brings me a little peace.
Zoya Ahmad
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I am glad Azaan. What is that you are going through? Please share.
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Azaan
Its a relationship problem. May be I'm not getting enough time of her..when this happens my mind creeps up with negative thoughts. All the small fights from our past rushes my mind.And i guess im a bit possessive. And sorry @irene to crowd your comment section with my chats
Zoya Ahmad
Why don’t you make a new post regarding you feeling Azaan we can communicate there.
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Irene
hey no problem @Azaan Everyone goes through something and we had the courage to speak out here. Thabks to you for hearing me out too.
Irene
Lonliness takes me to more and more stress here . can u feel when theres a lot of people in the house and still you feel lonely . Because i feel uncomfortable all the time and i dont feel like talking to anybody here. Plus when u dont have privacy and some lone time , its always difficult.
Zoya Ahmad
I can totally understand. Did you ask your husband about when are you guys going back to your place? You are finding it a little difficult to cope up with.
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Irene
yea Bur hes a mummas boy... no compromise on that even if am sick of being here. And this pandemic is forcing us to stay here. No othet go
Zoya Ahmad
What else do you think can be done to make things better for you? Can you try to be a little ignorant ?
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