I am sorry to say this but she ain’t the right one and doesn’t love you. I know it must be tough for you but you need to focus on yourself and be with someone who values your feelings and reciprocate it 😊. Don’t waste your time on her it will hurt you more

Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sire this must be really devastating for you. Try his will take time but you will have to accept it. I get it that it was a really long time but that part is now over, she didnot. Value the love you shared. Try to cherish the good memories you’ve had with her, and accept that its okay to let someone go. What she is doing shouldn’t be your concern, lets focus on you how you can come out of this situation. Let’s not see or stalk her on any platform , refrain from having her update. What do you do throughout the day?

Well ryt now I cannot concentrate on anything. I am not happy and I cannot think of anything that might make me happy. I live with my family but due to my bad mood I am unable to do justice to even them. I can't study nor enjoy any movie/TV show. My life has become a shit storm. I don't feel hungry nor energetic. I don't know what to do anymore.

Let’s focus on changing this. Ideally how do you want your day to be like?

Ideally I wanna be happy whatever I do, I dont wanna think amount of her. Study, watch movies, sleep peacefully, make my parents proud. I can't even sleep peacefully her thoughts haunt me everytime I am alone. I wake up early cant sleep till late nights. Please tell me what should I do

Let’s try to set a goal Have an action plan Road map how to start And let’s just start working on it.

The main Problem is I cannot stop thinking about her. Even if I am alone for a second my thoughts reach her. No matter what I wanna do, Give mock tests, Eat food, Play Video Games, Study, Talk to friends. I am scared to be alone coz I know I will again think of her. I am tired or crying. Feel like sleeping all day but can't even sleep when I go to bed because her thoughts return.

This will take time to actually be okay with this new feeling. You will have to accept it. Start writing about how you feel and we can discuss it.

Feels like there is a very big void in life now which cannot be filled, I am having insecurties about future whether I will be able to love someone else again, No matter what I achieve now feels incomplete without her as a result I have zero motivation to do anything else, I am praying each second to get her back but the thought that she is not even thinking about me is killing me from inside. My parents are worried, they think something is wrong with them thats making me like this, I feel so guilty about everything, I wanna forget her but don't know how to.

I can understand. It will take time. You will be fine. One day you will just be okay. Give yourself somwtime.

Mam, How do i get over her? How long will it take? Any suggestions you would like to give?

It depends on you, start involving yourself in daily activities.

I am trying to, but I feel lost all the time. I don't even know what normal would look like in future.

I can understand, take baby steps. One thing at a time.