developed feeling for a friend who had bad intentions, now unable to move on from the event that happened

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developed feeling for a friend who had bad intentions, now unable to move on from the event that happened

mera ik friend tha bht ache se batt krta ta boht acha behave krta tha or mere mnn me jehi tha ki voh ik acha insan hai itni respect se batt krta hai per jbh thode time badh mai use mili tho phele usne ache se batt ki sbb logo ke samne per jbh koi nhi tha he started flirting with me or bdhi ajiv c orr na sune wali bate krne lga on that time my all trust feelings sbb tuth gyi .in sbb ke badh v mene use kuch nhi kaha ajj v use koi ehsas nhi hai ki usne mujhe kitna hurt kia . Boh toh ese behave krta hai jaise kuch hua hi na ho . koi insan esa kaise ho skta hai itna feeling less .Uski schai jane ke badh v mere dil me uss ke liye feelings km nhi hui ajj v boht yaad ati hai uski pta nhi usne mere sath esa kyu kia mene toh kbhi use burra v nhi bola fir kyu kia esa usne kyu todha mera trust.

pridefulChough6

8 Answers
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Kai log ese hote hain unhe ehsaas nhi hota ki unhone kuch ghalat kia hai. Achhe hai aapko unke baare me pta lag gya ab aap khud sochiye ese insaan k saath jo aapko value nhi krta or esi cheez kehta hai jo aapne kabhi sochi nhi thi, wo aapki dosti k liye hai? Wo shuru se ghalat intention k saath tha apke saath. Aapne usse itne time baat ki islye aapki feelings kam nhi ho rhi, khud ko thoda samay dijiye or iss baat ko smjhne ki koshish kriye ki wo wesa nhi jesa usne aapko btaya tha. Or zindagi me aage badhne ki koshish kriye:
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pridefulChough6
shi kaha apne mujhe age bdhna chahihe jo mere dil me uss ke liye fellings thi mai keh nhi payi uss time mene socha baha seh niklna hi acha hai 7 months hogye iss batt ko fir v aesa lgta hai abhi ki hi batt hai uske boh words nikl nhi rhe mere mind se mai boht dar gyi thi uss din mujhe boht burra lga ki mene ese insan se pyar kia tha . mene ik saal wait kia tha uska milne ke liye lekin aesa hona tha socha nhi tha ajj v mere dil me kisi orr key liye feelings nhi aa rhi aesa lgta hai fir se bhi sb hoga mere sath. Boht kuch kehena tha usko sbb bs andr dbb gea boht guthn c hoti hai .
Zoya Ahmad
Aapka esa feel krna bilkul valid hai, aap ne sochq kuch or hua kuch or aap jis situation me uske saath thi to aapka darr k wahan se nikalna hi theek tha. Lekin he bhi sochiye ki harr insaan ek jesa nhi hota. Aap pehle iss sab ko accept krne ki koshish kriye. Usse kehkr koj fayda nhi Mujhse keh lijiye.
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pridefulChough6
chlo jo hua so huya koshish krugi age bdhne ki i hope mai jld hi iss situation se niklu. . Please give me some tips ki mai usko kaise bhullu ki vo mere dimag se hamesha ke liye nikl jaye . kabhi kabhi mera dil krta hai usko itna sunau ki vo khud bole mere se glti hogyi. Agar usko mere sath koi attachment thi hi nhi toh vo itni durr se mere se milna kyu aya tha even covid time tha fir v and usne mere se sorry v mangi thi ki apko wait krna pdha. Boht c bate hai jo meri smj me hi nhi aa rhi . Sbb kuch ulja hua hi rehegia.
Zoya Ahmad
Me smjh skti hu, Aap ki din bhar ki routine kya hai.
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pridefulChough6
mai subha ko toh study krne institute jati hu or 2:00pm ke krib shuti ho jati hai or fir ghr aa jati hu . uske badh institute se jo kam milta hai vo krleti or ghr ka kuch kam krleti hu. Then free days me mai songs ki shooting per v jati hun . Mai jadha to ghr ke bhr hi hoti hu . Study ke liye mai orr city me shift hui thi mere parents khi orr rehete hai.
Zoya Ahmad
Aap apne liye ek routine bnaeye, usko practice kriye, uske ek physical activitu zrur daliye, apni hobby practice kriye or khud ko busy rkhne ki koshish kriye. Zada se zada dhyaan khud pr krein ki kese aap career me aage badh skti hain. Isse aap is negative soch se nikal payengi
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pridefulChough6
ook okk thank you so much for your help. Mai koshish krugi ki negative thinking se durr rhu orr apne orr apne carrier per jadha dyan du

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