did u ever feel helpless?

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did anyone of u ever felt uncomfortable within his own family .....wellme I feel like a stranger.the fact that we lost the sense of communication and respect for each other ..I think nothing can bring us to be as we were before....just because they brought me to life doesnt mean they have the right to treat me the way they want.. I always feel wronged ...even if I was the right one...I'm always that bad selfish daughter who doesnt respect her parents ..when talking about mental health I'm just a crazy wench whos  playing the innocent girl trying to get away from her bad behaviours or attitude...I m just sick of this..like everytime we get into such arguments it ends up so badly ...and I always think of when everything is gonna be over...I can't deal with this no more....maybe I m the one to blame for everything ..even crying doesn't help me relief that fire thats killing me alive...help plz

jealousrice1 · Answer

I go through the same thing every time with my family... just because I don't show or act in certain characters they assume that I am a bad person. I felt bad and all I can think of is hate and that they don't need me so why not kill myself. But let me tell you what I realized is my family they don't run my life or ever lived a single they in it. they can treat me like shit assuming their perfect but if they ever stood in my shoe they would never survive a day and I guess that's kinda cool I guess. And the same applies to you don't let them dictate you and who you are. they have their own lives to live and your only the only one responsible for your happiness in your life. hope this helped if you need anyone to talk to lemme know.

brokenmeee · Answer

it really helped ...u just described me while talking about Urself.....I'll no longer waste time thinking about these things ...I'll wake up tomorrow with a new mind set 'this is me and I love me' ...even if others don't I'll keep on going and love myself more and more.

brokenmeee · Answer

being here let me realize that I just need to get out of the bubble I created living withy family...while when I was living alone I was another version of me ...I loved me and cared for me ...had some break downs due to unexpected things in life but got over it each time...this time too I'll take the hit to become stronger....Mr jealousrice1 thanku i feel so loved

achuontrack · Answer

hi friend, i sometimes feel like that too, like i used to be an A grade student and now I have nothing. not even a degree. all my work it got spoiled. but the most important thing i did is , i kept going. i searched for courses i could do in my 26th year of live, started studying like an 18 year old. life has been hard but don't let it demotivate you. whatever troubles you are facing will ease itself someday and we will be happy that we came out through all of that. good luck friend

Moonmin05 · Answer

well in my own family i feel like a guest and feel very distant it's like in i just live in other PPL house everyone think they understand me bt they know what is actually happening with me which makes me sad constant comparison and they are never happy with my efforts  everything time i try to do something right they always change it into wrong and it somehow became my fault ..i know they love me bt still i don't like the way they treat me ... that's why i try to solve my own problems alone and i enjoy my own company i talk to them less that doesn't mean i don't love them i love them more then anyone bt i can't change my distant feeling towards them ...when we feel distant it's not our fault cause they made us this way if u want to cry u can bt u have to start loving urself more and enjoy ur own company

brokenmeee · Answer

thank u guys ....for all the support u've given me ...I feel so blessed .....

Moonmin05 · Answer

it's ok I'm here to help if u need

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?