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I feel incomplete right now...my boyfriend is not acting like he should anymore. When we we're dating he was so sweet, we usually talk for hours. You can tell he badly needed me but now that we're in a relationship, he acts otherwise 🥺. He doesn't even care one bit. His attitude makes me question his love for me. He doesn't give me his support whenever I need it. it's as if I'm not even in a relationship because I see no difference. He feels he's too handsome and has a lot of girls at his call. He prefers hanging out with friends than me and prefers chat and flirting with them than talking to me. He only have real time with me when he wants something. This whole thing is driving nuts cause I really love him. I'm so connected to him that I can't even go a day without talking to him and this is why I feel so much pain.

blissfulcod3

12 Answers
goofyChile8
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I think you should talk to him about the things that have changed, things that has been bothering you and how you both can work on things together.
blissfulcod3
He doesn't give me the attention. He gives me late replies and make excuses so we don't see offen except when he wants to
grumpyPonie4
3
Try to ignoring him sometimes
grumpyPonie4
1
Do not chat him Control your self to not communicate to him in hours try to ignore
blissfulcod3
but how can I do that? my cousin said the same thing but how can I avoid him when I'm so attached now... it's hard grumpyPonie4
giddyFalcon3
5
See don't worry about this.....it might be because he knows you well now and have a firm believe that you will not leave him....
giddyFalcon3
4
Try controlling yourself....engage in activities of your own ....so that you keep a control of yourself not to talk to him too often....so he that he doesn't take you lightly.....
grumpyPonie4
4
Exactly giddyfalcon😊 Only she need try herself control not easy well because she is the one situation blissfulcod no one can help you just only yourself
grumpyPonie4
2
Try to communicate to others person blissfulcon
needfulChile9
5
Dude you should literally talk this out... I hope this is a misunderstanding if not then give him less attention then what you used to give him. If being too attached to him he will feel like you are never gonna leave him and stuff.. If he really loves you i am sure that your being less attentive to him will make him bother! I hope things get better!
blissfulcod3
1
I believe so too griddyfalcon3. I will try, I need to and I will...this place will be my number one distraction. Thanks!
blissfulcod3
Thank you so much needfulChile9 this will really help. I feel the same way and I know it's because of that he's acting up. He's too full of himself because he's handsome and have so many girls crushing on him and asking him out all the time. I will distance myself from him then. Thanks !

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