difficulty in staying friends with someone who is love

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difficulty in staying friends with someone who is love

my ex broke up with me 5 months back... i waa still trying to get him back, we used to be in contact daily, sometimes fught, sometimes good talks, now suddenly his father passed away... and at this time we still are in contact, should i visit him, may be he will feel better, he is away from home alone at his work place, what should i do... i dont want him to think that i am trying to get him back by doing this... should i take the risk

memm11

7 Answers
rkaka
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You can go to his place and comfort him as a friend.the Call is yours. Also, focus on yourself and your happiness post breakup .
memm11
i am afraid he might not want to see me but during his fathers illness and during his death i was the only person he could contact, but since he has come over to his work place, he is a bit different and he doesnt prefer talking about anything but just studies, its not even been a month since his dad passed away.... so much confusion
avantika
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you should message him often but dont put your selfrespect down by continuously being in touch.wait for him to recollect himself and respond.but be there for him if he's in need.
memm11
thank you... i just feel a lot for him... may be thats why i m worried about him
avantika
1
worry about yourself rather than worrying about him.he's going through a bigger loss.but you also have your whole life.focus on building yourself.he will talk to you if he'll need you.
memm11
yeah
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I read all your posts, imI appreciate your concern, he is disturbed right now, he has lost his father but he has now devoted himself to studies and doesn’t want to talk, I think he might use harsh words that is going to hurt you a lot. It’s better that you give him space right now, you can check on him once in a while, but not always.
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