distance from best friend

Anxiety

Its been and 5months and 22days that my best friend is not in much contact with me. I'm afraid of losing him because he is my family. We have a lot of memories together. From the day we met it was really something awesome. I never knew someone could be so much close to me DAT the thought of losing starts breaking me from inside. I never like anyone being so close to him and as he knew every thing about me. My most favorite time was with him, chatting talking irritating him. He knew how to can me down in all the situations, he always told me that I'm special to him and I'm important in his life. I never thought someone we come and make me love myself and will love me the way I'm. And as we graduated, we could not meet as bcoz of work bit he always removed time to meet me. And one day he asked regarding all my feelings for him as he came to about it Dat I feel for him, so as he did, but DAT wouldn't have been accepted by our family's. He told DAT even though if we are not together but I'm his lifeline forever. He even not to think about the future and hurt yourself but just be in present with me, let God handle the future. Everything was well till April 2020 but, suddenly idk wat happened he reduced everything with me, he don't talk to me much, he don't reply me mor msg, whenever I tried to ask him he blames himself, the thing which he don't want is, hurting me, he loves but avoiding, he kept himself away from me, idk wen will everything be and I will be with him, I miss him a lot, I just want him back in my life forever. I don't want to lose him at any cost.

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7 Answers

hashbrown

Hi, I know you must be heartbroken. May be he knows that your relation with her will not work and he doesnt want to hurt you. May be now you must be in pain but you can move forward in life. You cant force anyone to be with you

Sahitya MG

Hi . I understand your helplessness. Try to express how you feel about him not replying. And what does he mean to as a person. Everything. To him this will make you relieved. But also try giving him some space so that he can think and contemplate on it.

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Usually everything used to be normal within 2 days but this time it is to long, I gave time but how much time, he knows me very but still is now acting like he don't know anything, and seeing him this way its hurting me too. He is my human diary, he always heard me without stopping me, we shared so many secrets with each other, but seriously its very strange that he changed himself so much. He even promised me nothing will be changed still it happened. My only person after my mom I look upon is him and the love this two have for me DAT love no one does.

Breathe. I understand presently it is tough for you to calm down. With with time things will change. You did your part by expressing how you feel. Now try giving h his space to think and feel about it. Till try divert yourself in something you love to do. Something your interest lies in work on something for your self.

I do all the things but some na something but I'm just getting scared of loosing. Whenever I see others with there bffs it hurts me, wen others talk regarding their special one I miss him. He is my family, we always looked each other in all the situations whether happy or sad, he stood by me always. He never judged neither by my looks nor by my craziness. And now I need him the most but I'm helpless. He too has difficulties but he does not want to share with me, idk why.

I understand your fear about uncertainty. But the best thing to do right now is be patient. He might revert back. But you should also try understand that their feelings towards others is not in our control.

Patience for so long only. But he is not ready to talk, he told me DAT he's feeling for me is true and I'm important but him, but other thing is not ready to talk to me nor anyone. I want him to be happy but things are all messing up. We both promised that we won't leave each other in all the situations we will be there together, but now it is totally changed. Idk wat will be going to happen but for me my either treasure is him and my mom, and no one is as important as them. I just want both of them to be with me forever.

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