this is normal wanna know why? bcoz when after a certain time of our life we exactly come to know about true faces of people or true face of reality thats when maturity hits we understand slowly that pleasuring people or caring about their words can do nothing good to us thats when we start to love ourself we focus only on ourself we try to pleasure care ourself then people have very less effect on us and thats when life becomes easy and thats when we get confident to walk in this world

@madorange8 hey buddy. thanks for ur time and energy. really appreciated. I started hating people slowly for various reasons. some of them could be: showing their selfish side when time comes, saying words that hurt(later saying that they were joking), some just take me for granted(by ignoring my calls n msgs), some just take(n give nthg in return), some are simply hypocrites(point u out and do the same shit). Slowly Ive come to know that I always placed others before my needs. n now I realised all those efforts are of waste. being a person who is a giver(people just have been takers), who thinks twice before saying something(just gets thrown at some hurting words), who includes everyone in everything(gets excluded at places or in someone's presence), being a good listener(gets to be asked nthg about me or my life), who is there for someone(ends up being alone, when I needed someone). it's really hard when people don't value u Or ur feelings. but sometimes it's late by the time we realise that we were never really valued. today I really feel not valued and I choosed to be alone.

there is simple rule give happiness take happiness but when it dont works then ignore cut out this rule from your life never ever let anyone use you take you for granted ignore someone double the price they ignore you dont let Thier words be hurdle in your life enjoy your life with yourself you will find it ammusing

@madorange8 that's true. I am slowly cutting off the toxic ones. but some just keep coming back to u. that when it's hard to cut off.

dont give them a chance to play with your life again dont give them the time they take for granted its your time to show them who you are

yes. getting busy is the best way to overcome these kind of people. time is everything

yes its on you now to choose yourself or those people again

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