why does a person associate someone who broke your heart so much.. to things in the past.. materialistic things that brought you happiness.. Divorce is freaking hard.. a break-up is done and you walk away. but Divorce is opening old wounds again and again.. the wound heals and then it opens again. it's crazy:( and so damn painful. already dealing with a loss of one person, here one has to break up with whole families.. i made connections with his siblings.. his elders.. to be chucked like that is very hard. I'm in a lot of pain.. of this recurring hurt...