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hi, i am talking abt thid for the first time so its really difficult but i will make it easier to understand well i guess the reason i am here is to find out the actual problem with me. i feel lonely the entire time even though i have a boyfriend. we are in a complicated relationship i guess i dont really have "friends" i am always the shoulder to cry on but never the person who needs one actually thats what people think cause when i try talking they feel that if i can console them i can easily do that for myself and i cant. i literally have no motivation in life i am always tired and i always wanna take a nap i cant bear arguments i always say sorry and let it go cause i have a fear of losing people. i guess i just need someone to hear me out and give me a suggestion cause this is really destroying me. Thank you!

Angiejoseph6420

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Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can understand it must be difficult for you to not be able to share how you feel. Why are you in a complicated relationship, do you guys often talk and share stuff? You don’t have to actively involved in arguments you can be assertive— put your point and that’s it. Do you have any close friend who you can approach that you also wants a shoulder to lean on. Someone you can share your feelings with.
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Angiejoseph6420
i feel like i am bothering him with my doubts only so called bestfs who say that they will be there for me but arent i cant put points i get scared instantaly and i feel like everything is my fault
Zoya Ahmad
Have you tried talking to your boyfriend about how you feel? It’s important to communicate ina. Relationship, the other person can’t assume what’s on your mind. It’s better to express. Nothing is your fault. You just need to have an opinion you are sure of. Nothing is absolutely right or wrong everyone have their own perspective.
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Angiejoseph6420
my boyfriend is not expressive and short tempered i hestitate before telling him the problem because what if he took it in a wrong way and get more mad at me we are in a long distance relationship
Zoya Ahmad
Talk about it, you are ina. Relationship not in a bondage, why be afraid.
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Angiejoseph6420
what do i say
Zoya Ahmad
Just politely and kindly tell him how do you feel. Discuss about your relationship.
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Angiejoseph6420
Okay Thank you so much!

Anyone know any apps where I can vent privately

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