My sibling has been in a relationship for 9 years and now my parents know about it, my parents had asked if she loves someone but she said no 2 years back and it's because he didn't have a job he just completed his studies but even after having a degree in Marine engineering he can't work because there is none else to take care of his parents so he is staying with them. My parents know him for a decade and they don't like him, they think he is irresponsible, even I don't trust him completely. My parents had said yes to the marriage proposal which they had got recently before they know. And saying No to them is not easy, we are vegetarians and the guy whom my sibling loves is non-vegetarian not only that but he is in a lot of debt. My sibling wants to spend her life with him but my parents don't think it's a wise choice. They're strictly against that and there is drama in the house every day. Can you please suggest me what to do? I am tired of all these it's affecting my mental health.
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My sibling has been in a relationship for 9 years and now my parents know about it, my parents had asked if she loves someone but she said no 2 years back and it's because he didn't have a job he just completed his studies but even after having a degree in Marine engineering he can't work because there is none else to take care of his parents so he is staying with them. My parents know him for a decade and they don't like him, they think he is irresponsible, even I don't trust him completely. My parents had said yes to the marriage proposal which they had got recently before they know. And saying No to them is not easy, we are vegetarians and the guy whom my sibling loves is non-vegetarian not only that but he is in a lot of debt. My sibling wants to spend her life with him but my parents don't think it's a wise choice. They're strictly against that and there is drama in the house every day. Can you please suggest me what to do? I am tired of all these it's affecting my mental health.

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