.Well the thing is that I have been dating this guy from my native place like a week ago nd we met through social media nd he dm a lot telling he wanna date me and promised me he will take care of me nd stuff...days after for our first he wanted to take a room I wasn't happy with it but he insisted me coz after that we were going on a long distance and so for happiness we did take a room nd did it and next day .I was going back to another state for my studies nd he didn't even text me or called me daily ever since he gets annoyed when I say my intentions like to call nd talk everyday but he thinks it's toxic nd possessive behavior of mine nd next day something terrible happened he was checking on my friends who r fair nd pretty nd asking me to intro him to them i felt stupid.I can't breakup with thus guy coz I hope he will change ig.now he talks about his new female frnd nd I told to tell him to tell ppl abt our relation he said no coz it will decrease the popularity of him in clg

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giddystork3 · Answer

so I don't know what to do please guys please help me out of this

Vickey · Answer

sorry but they are not suitable for u

Vickey · Answer

and don't be sad, we are always here to support you

usernametaken · Answer

sorry to say but he just used u...

usernametaken · Answer

better u stay away from.him now

giddystork3 · Answer

@vickey u know what upsets me he promised me he will take care of me and if any fights between us it will be solved before sleeping nd even since after our first 'date' he changed nd nowadays when I feel lonely he is like he busy with his friend nd I know it's weird but she was whispering something to him nd he was laughing nd i told him to tell about us to that girl coz she has crush on him but he is not confident nor happy to tell that girl or ppl in his college cause it will affect his popularity nd all

giddystork3 · Answer

@usernametaken you are right when I told him that I wanna end this he didn't fight back thinking I'm always like this

usernametaken · Answer

yes that's why better to stay away from him.....and enjoy your precious life

Vickey · Answer

if they loves u, they accept u infront of all, It means clear they used ur emotions to fulfil

alertchile0 · Answer

hey, why can't you leave him?

giddystork3 · Answer

@alertchile0 coz I trusted nd loved him and did everything he loved nd he promised he will take care as long as he can.....I'm just waiting bcoz we did stupid things together nd idk I'm just waiting hoping he will change

alertchile0 · Answer

but he has changed....it seems like he made false promises

alertchile0 · Answer

please don't expect any changes because it will hurt you a lot

alertchile0 · Answer

Does he have any explanation of the things he is doing to you?

giddystork3 · Answer

@alertchile what should I do coz even if I leave he is confident that is good looking bd will get someone else asap nd I'm the only fool who will cry

giddystork3 · Answer

@alertchile he says I hv to reduce weight nd wear good looking clothed nd wear makeup nd tell this is his way of taking care

alertchile0 · Answer

do you agree with him...and the way he is ashamed of you?

alertchile0 · Answer

do you think he really loves you......and is it worth spending your time and maybe waiting for him?

giddystork3 · Answer

@alertchile no I just want him to love me for what I am....he compares me with some celebrity who is fair nd pretty nd said he will never get a girl like her

alertchile0 · Answer

does he respects you?

giddystork3 · Answer

@alertchile0 no😔

alertchile0 · Answer

But please know that you cannot change the way he thinks and the things he want

alertchile0 · Answer

you seem new to these things...please be take care of yourself

gutturalvenison6 · Answer

that seems really toxic, maybe you should ask him to tell his intentons clearly

giddystork3 · Answer

@gutturalvenison6 he says I'm being toxic nd possessive when I ask him or say something about us...see I don't demand or anything to him I just express my thoughts I mean if he is my bf don't I have the right to tell these things.....so thr is no use of asking him

giddystork3 · Answer

I wanna end this too...but u know what..... we madeout which was on his favour nd idk I'm scared if something happens to me he will say he is responsible for any this thats y im holding on...I did stupid I know 😥😔🥺

alertchile0 · Answer

you mean pregnancy?...take a test

giddystork3 · Answer

@alertchile0 it's not time yet we did it like a week ago so I will wait for I more week

giddystork3 · Answer

@but I took a pill asap after that so I hope nothing bad will happen

gutturalvenison6 · Answer

if you took pill it should be fine, but tell me this, how long have you been together?

giddystork3 · Answer

1 week....😔

gutturalvenison6 · Answer

and when was your last interaction with him?

giddystork3 · Answer

day before new year

gutturalvenison6 · Answer

this clearly seems toxic, he used you, and he doesn't respect you, he just kept you as an option, i would suggest you to stay away from him. you have feelings from your side, they will eventually pass, but if you don't create distance from your side, you will regret it later. :)

giddystork3 · Answer

@gutturalvenison6 I really want to end this asap but I'm just scared whether I will pregnant or not even though I hv taken the pill

gutturalvenison6 · Answer

if you took the pill, it should hopefully be fine, just wait in that case. :/

giddystork3 · Answer

@gutturalvenison6 I just need a sure for that coz it was my first time

giddystork3 · Answer

@gutturalvension6 that's y I'm waiting

gutturalvenison6 · Answer

meanwhile we are all here to support you :)

giddystork3 · Answer

@gutturalvenison6 thought this is virtual I felt much relieved...I hope nothing happens to me again once if it is confirmed if I'm not I will definitely breakup with him nd block the hell out of him

gutturalvenison6 · Answer

definitely! it will all be fine :)

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