okay so i actually need someone to maybe console idk. i am already thankful for ya'll to msg
I don't know what to console, but you hang in there. You can do it
so there's this boy he always been sweet to me and i actually fell for him and he never did. he told me about it thou. he always said he would date me if he could but he date no one and he is cold hearted but he was sweet to me intially. he always said i was his type. but he also always mentioned he never felt for me. one day he kissed me and said because he wanted to. he kissed me alot of times but still says he doesn't feel for me. but he just felt kissing and he also mentions how he did not use me and doesn't properly explain. he treats me like burden
umm.. u need to take charge of the situation and only u can decide. if u want to be stomped all over or not. don't be under him. u should be strong and tell him how u really feel. if he's still not changing. it's better u find someone who values the time spent with them.
It feels like he has commitment issues and he may like you but he's just afraid to be in relationship or he could just be using you when horny.
i explained things and how i feel to alot of times. so he asked to meet me and we met he was hugging me alot but i didn't hug back so he got pissed at it and said stop acting cold to me then even i told him that u are cold too then why do u mind me being cold he says he is cold whereas i act cold and blah blah. fought with him so many times. tbh now there's only a lil of something i feel for him but
it hurts me coz he kissed me so passionately and so many of things i felt through it. as if he really wanted me and as if he loved me alot but it was just for those moments then again while talking he's always interested though he says i ain't a burden but he treats me that way. he treats me very ordinary when i treat him like so Fuck better
Yeah, I think you should move on from him. You feel only a little for him now so it'll be easy to move forward.
but i am afraid. he'll never come to me ever. he will just forget me i am sure of it.
it's very hard to move on when i see him everyday and it's unavoidable
If you sure of it then you must forget about him too and stop seeing him, it'll be hard but you have to.
why would he ever kissed me😭😭
Just say what you want to say to him or just say what you are saying here.
should i tell you what all he told while kissing me? i mean i want to understand what he actually meant by ya'lls opinion
But you really have to talk to him. Saying all of this to us will do nothing, you ahould clear everything you have in your mind.
first we casually met where he said he can turn anybody on easily i protested so he was just trying to breathe near my neck and lips and suddenly he kissed me and asked to continue i was clueless. i went silent that day to him coz as much as i wanted it but he didn't feel anything for me. he was explaining trash to me saying he wanted to do it i asked why he said he don't know. he stated i was his first kiss. he said as i did so many things for him he wanted to award me for that. he said he won't remember this kiss it wasn't special then i face him he changed his statement and said no i mean i'll remember but blurry memory i will remember the kiss with the loml only like perfectly. then he later also said he'd like to have more with me. i didn't talk to him that day so he was so desparate to make me talk. i didn't but i later gave on thinking maybe it's the time he'll start feeling for me. we met next day too. we had a solid kiss and said alot of things "i will never get enough of you" "i can do this whole day" and so on and so on and after that day he suddenly started changing but he still asked me on my bday for kiss as a gift which was 5 days ago. i never even approached him for a handshake but he was always the one doing all the physical things and i just don't know. i invested myself so much in him that it's hard for me to back off. because i don't know what it meant for him but i meant the world for me.
First of all, he doesn't love you, at all. This is a toxic relationship that you are in. I suggest you talk to him about it, be defensive and don't give to his temptations. Ask him what it meant for him.
agreed @Jitesh....seems like he's using you
he said it meant for him too. that's why he did
he is just being very mixed
if it really meant anything to him. He wouldn't be cold towards you.
mixed signal is a signal in itself
he says he is just cold as in cold person. he doesn't like anyone not even his family. He says i deserve better. he treats everyone cold he says
so what you're trying to change him? every cold person may it be a Don changes when he's actually into someone.