I saw a dream of becoming an IITian at the age of just 10 I started working hard since then.I always come first in my class as I cleared my 10th with good marks everyone were going for IIT coaching but It cost around 3-3.5 lakhs which my father was not able to afford at that time and i was also forced by my relatives not to see such big dreams as my father's income is low. As Jee Advanced is more coaching oriented exam I was not able to crack that in my first attempt but I decided to take coaching offered free to me on the basis of my 12th marks but after 15 days that also got closed due to second wave of covid somehow I made it to clear jee mains because of my own efforts but not jee Advanced even in my second attempt. I sacrificed my happiness, childhood, joy behind IIT but couldn't make it now I find myself helpless and doesn't believe in hardwork gives success. Everyone says I could succeed even in NIT also but I can't forget those 8 years and unable to sleep. I am full of regret.

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achuontrack · Answer

I understand how it's been a huge deal. I was in the same spot a few years ago trying for my Govt. medical seat. It's good to hear that you've been working hard, but you need to accept some things as they are, buddy. First you need bring IIT from the pedestal that it stands on. It's not the end of the world buddy. Youre young and have to go through more tough situations. Don't let this faze you. Also, you are at no way to be blamed for this. it's peers, parents and everyone else that puts a pressure on students to get good marks and get IIT kinda colleges. so stop blaming yourself. hope this makes you feel better buddy.

tubu · Answer

please understand even nit, BITs, DTU , NSIT, IIITs are great colleges having equally great programmes and success ratio..you have worked hard and this is your reward..if you now work hard for the next four years in college you will succeed far more than most people in IITs.. in the real world, it’s you who matters and in the long run your college tag will wither away and it’s the experience and work that will speak for them.. I would say congrats on your result and best of luck for an awesome future

praiseayu · Answer

yes ... don't be said ..iit is not everything

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