My husband gives me money. what supposedly is from him for me to buy whatever i want. but he would keep asking for it in small amounts. its shared basically. he would ask me how much i have left etc. but when i ask him what he bought with his credit card he would say this is why i dont wanna talk abt this n when i say sorry, he would tell me oh now ure being sensitive. i was just upset about it. am i not allowed to ask?