i don't know why but i always feel alone ,i want to talk to others but it always feels like i message first and then i feel in bothering them.. i want to talk and so i stay online the whole day hoping someone will message me but no one does ,even when they do i always reply immediately but they take a lot of time to reply . Even my bf i wanna talk to him ,it always feels like i message first and i end the convo ,i know he loves me but sometimes i feel so insecure that i feel like he doesn't like me and that I'm not that pretty or have a great personality like others so there's no reason for him to like me . i feel like crying so much and it's hard to control it... even today I've been online for like so many hours now still hoping someone will message me...for once in my life i want to feel like I'm actually needed by someone. I'm sorry for venting so much and thank you for reading till the end

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i don't know why but i always feel alone ,i want to talk to others but it always feels like i message first and then i feel in bothering them.. i want to talk and so i stay online the whole day hoping someone will message me but no one does ,even when they do i always reply immediately but they take a lot of time to reply . Even my bf i wanna talk to him ,it always feels like i message first and i end the convo ,i know he loves me but sometimes i feel so insecure that i feel like he doesn't like me and that I'm not that pretty or have a great personality like others so there's no reason for him to like me . i feel like crying so much and it's hard to control it... even today I've been online for like so many hours now still hoping someone will message me...for once in my life i want to feel like I'm actually needed by someone. I'm sorry for venting so much and thank you for reading till the end<3

usernametaken · Answer

hey.  .... i hv read from start to end.  and i m sorry if u have felt so... u shouldn't be feel that way...

bearwiththickhead · Answer

from my point of view, you're taking precautions. We usually do this to be more sure. And it's a good thing.

bearwiththickhead · Answer

Believe in your decisions, don't doubt em.

bearwiththickhead · Answer

Because when we start to doubt them, we start to let ourselves down. and that is a destructive thought practice.

amusedtuna7 · Answer

means that you don't trust your self worth....just do whatever you like rest those who care about you will come up to you. and then accept them.....Like minded people will also come to you

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?