i need to talk is anyone there

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dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

hello

wrathfulsheep7 · Answer

Hello

clarke34 · Answer

hii @wrathfulsheep7 and dreadfulunicorn8

clarke34 · Answer

how r u feeling

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

Fine almost

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

how about you?

madeagle7 · Answer

hey what's up

clarke34 · Answer

just ok but feeling emotionally drained

madeagle7 · Answer

why what happened

clarke34 · Answer

hey madeagle whats up hows its going

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

@clarke34 something happened ?

clarke34 · Answer

hey guys is anyone feeling happy today

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

hi madeagle7

clarke34 · Answer

yess

wrathfulsheep7 · Answer

Why are you feeling drained?

clarke34 · Answer

some evil people always have their ways on you always

clarke34 · Answer

i feel hurted when i feel someone is upset with me without myself knowing real reason behind it

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

I relate to that

clarke34 · Answer

anyone, does ignoring always helps

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

I too feel sometimes that bc I feel this need to please everyone but overtime but I am trying to be comfortable with people being upset bc of me

clarke34 · Answer

why the feeling of pleasing someone turns the person whom we r pleasing so comfortable that they take this for granted

clarke34 · Answer

guys??

clarke34 · Answer

and gals

clarke34 · Answer

can anyone relate with that

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

Because we set no boundaries we let them think that we are not going to oppose and this makes them think of us low or like can be taken for granted for

clarke34 · Answer

i think loving should not be one sided right i mean pleasing

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

nope it shouldn't be like that

wrathfulsheep7 · Answer

Love should never be draining and one sided

clarke34 · Answer

hey when we start to think that we have analysed ourselves reagarding our weak sections and try to find out solutions should we consider our perception too regarding a particular person or make boundaries that are meant to be followed by others too??

clarke34 · Answer

😔😔😔

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

Yeah definitely because if you let someone think it's OK to lie or cheat they are going to do it again and again. boundaries are imp

clarke34 · Answer

emotional strength and belief system may also help maybe

clarke34 · Answer

heyy i think do anyone agree with the fact that we always need at some point of time validation from someone close to us

clarke34 · Answer

hey @wrathfulsheep7,dreadfulunicorn8 and madeagke

clarke34 · Answer

madeagle

clarke34 · Answer

any suggestions

madeagle7 · Answer

throw unwanted people out of ur life

madeagle7 · Answer

u do not have to please anyone

madeagle7 · Answer

and we don't have to search for others to feel happy

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

Truly I tried doing it See it is natural to seek validation but if you rely on it always you will always feel worthless it's truly internal

clarke34 · Answer

should we make boundaries with family too??isnt that bad

madeagle7 · Answer

if you make hard and rightful choices your life will be easy and vice versa

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

If your family always picks on you and always invalidates your feelings then yeah you should

clarke34 · Answer

yess your perception is right invalidating even when when i know im right

madeagle7 · Answer

complete all your duties towards ur family but never let yourself suffer unwantedly because of family

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

@madeagle7 I agree

madeagle7 · Answer

thanks

clarke34 · Answer

so agreeing to injustifiable matters is bad rightt??

madeagle7 · Answer

it's not right

clarke34 · Answer

so Is taking stand during that time even emotionllly we cant.. Take stand

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

Yes it's bad

clarke34 · Answer

😣😣

madeagle7 · Answer

take stand for right reasons and don't hurt anyone intentionally

clarke34 · Answer

hey i cant even think of hurting anyone

clarke34 · Answer

if some elder person is embarrasing without any remorse is that ok to keeep silence

clarke34 · Answer

dreadfulunicorn8 u there

clarke34 · Answer

heyy guys

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

This has happened to me as well tbh The only smart thing to do is to ignore but you can't always So if you are comfortable with them just politely ask to not do anything that makes you uncomfortable

clarke34 · Answer

today it happen😢😢

madeagle7 · Answer

guys please support me on my post

clarke34 · Answer

happened

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

clarke34 · Answer

🤗🤗@dreadfulunicorn8

clarke34 · Answer

thank you for understanding me @dreadfulunicorn8

dreadfulunicorn8 · Answer

You are very welcome

help me please

how do I change for the better?

difficult tym after breakup