no one's fault, talk about this to her, if she listen- then good, if she doesn't - it's time to move on.
artisticstork6
i have said that to her then she started to ask me about my day it feels like formalities, and again start talking about her only
skylar
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then if its repetitive ,then I think it itself is clear. I too have friends like that it was getting too much for me - I simply distanced myself. nothing much changed, we still talk from time to time.🙂
artisticstork6
we have been friends since 6 years but I still feel I have no emotional support from anyone, that's why iam here- I know I have the problem that I can't explain my emotions to anyone but sometimes it feels like I wish I had someone who can understand me.
skylar
same girl, we were too friends since nur. I think it been 14yrs of our friendship, we still talk from time to time - now when we hangout or even talk with her for 5 min - it's just feel more meaningful, even if its me who's listening. some people just don't realise, talking and listening is a two way street.
artisticstork6
I think I should change myself that's the only solution but it's just in my nature.
skylar
change urself why? I mean based on what's written above, I don't see any negative trait, that needs to be changed. in the end it's ur choice
artisticstork6
because for everyone I'm really hard to understand they feel like I'm so complicated, that makes me feel sorry for them I don't know what to do!
skylar
everyone is different, their mind and perspective cant be changed. to be able to understand other, u need to actually put efforts, which most people don't. u r nt the problem, the people around u either lack brain cell Or priorities to put efforts on u - I'm sorry it's seems rude or harsh. but make ur mental health ur priority.
