husband busy in his world.. I hv no one to connect to
you must be having other people in family,or friends
yes I do... but the attention I require can be given by my husband only
ooh, then try to ask him for. you have a special relationship so you can talk directly with him
I did try but it always ends in argument
that's not good.
hmm... that is making me more lonely...
try to make some friends for sometime may be he must be busy.
after sometime talk to him
how are u feeling right now
I m very depressed and lonely...
I lost my baby two months back
that's so sad actually
yes... that's why I needed the emotional support from my husband..
i can't say why he is doing this but i hope you will get a healthy baby soon
I don't think so.. we are disconnected...
ooh,is that so much serious?
try to talk to family then they can help you
he asked me not to speak about this to anyone..
then what you will do?
I really don't know
try to start doing something new and find some new passion
I m trying to heal myself.
is he just busy in work or there is something else?
try to talk to new people, enjoy with friends and family it will make you feel Better and heal faster.
no idea maybe busy in work
my family lives far.. my friends are near but he does not want me to share anything with them..
try to talking to close friends only who will not disclose anything, or someone who can hear you. because you need someone to grief in such situations
you can talk to me anything you want. i am not married but recently someone left me after 5 yrs of relationship so i can understand some of your pain
yes... I have s friend with whom I can share anything.. I did.. but my husband did not like it and again we had a fight.
don't tell your husband about that.
I did not but he could make out... he know me for 14yrs
14 yrs that's so much
then how your relationship became like this
he has turned into most insensitive person. is my marriage ending??
no it's not but it can if things will be like this
the last incident of losing my baby killed me emotionally and his insensitive towards me during this period moved me towards depression.
ooh, are you alone in home or you live with family?
I think my marriage will end.. I cannot connect with him anymore.
alone at home.. I have a son
don't take such harsh decision try to think, talk to people and then take you decision
I m not in a position to take decision... I don't communicate with him because it will lead to another argument... I save myself from humiliation
is there anything more which happened?
take your time to think in the mean talk to people who will help you to heal
I m trying every day to heal myself.. I have a son to look after
But at the day end I become lonely
whenever you feel lonely you can talk to me. i can be your friend if you need
thank you so much..
this is a good place to talk..
thanx for your support
ok you are most welcome. hope everything will be fine soon.all the best. take care
Please do not say that your marriage life will end . The more negative you think ,The more negative you attract . So,Please calm down . Do meditation,First relax your mind . Then Try to talk to him. Ask him what is going on in his mind . Try to understand his feelings and problem and then politely convey him how you feel .Even ,I am facing some relationship issues but what I understood is everything has a solution and our life moves on with the way we think (law of attraction).Please think positive. we are all here for you . Don't worry .
I have tried speaking to him numerous times but it only end up argumentative. so I have stopped talking...
this saves me from humiliation..
try to consult someone and expert who can help
I don't think he is ready for it
the expert can make him ready ,or try to talk to a friend to whom he will listen or family member
told you I don't like talking to him anymore.. but will give a last try...
yes you should.
Please try to consult an expert by yourself and decide what to do next . I think , Talking to each other would solve the problem but the way of talking matters . It's your 14 yrs of relationship. it's not just an ordinary relationship. 14 yrs of memories together . So ,Try your best to be together. Give it a try once more but before that clear your mind ,bring positivity in yourself ,then go and speak .Take care of yourself first .
will try.. thank you so much all of you... it feels so much better to share my heart..