Emotionally cheated

Question

My partner is not emotionally connected with me. But we are intimate with each other. After ever love making I get more emotionally attached and he as usual ignorant. I feel emotionally cheated. I cannot stop this nor take this because I m married...

sincereiguana4 · Answer

your partner is your husband??

lovesickstork9 · Answer

yes.. married for 14 years

sincereiguana4 · Answer

ohh

sincereiguana4 · Answer

is this an arrange marriage

lovesickstork9 · Answer

yes... arranged marriage.... carrying it for 14 years..

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

for guys it different....

alertchile0 · Answer

so what are you looking for?

androidgamer · Answer

what is your contribution towards the relationship?

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

what's that emotional connect ? can you explain ?

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

you want him to cry ?

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

or ?

lovesickstork9 · Answer

emotion doesn't mean cry... it means taking care.. being there when you are down

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

in general he is not emotionally connected to you ?

lovesickstork9 · Answer

my contribution.. I left my flourishing job being a professional just to take care of my family

lovesickstork9 · Answer

no

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

thats no one can fix .... some time people get numb ... emotionally...

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

if there is no communication etc ... no livilyness .... people zone off ... everything becomes a routine

lovesickstork9 · Answer

I m becoming numb day by day.

androidgamer · Answer

is your family happy with your contribution ( your kids, husband) ?

lovesickstork9 · Answer

maybe not...

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

that's how most realtionship die .... it's a frozen place to be in ...

lovesickstork9 · Answer

hmm... how do i survive this situation?? I can't leave difficult to stay.

androidgamer · Answer

you know it's quite natural - after an intimate moment - males try to bugger off mostly and it's quite common but that doesn't mean males are not attached but on the other hand females expect males to be still there spend some more time emotionally that's female nature but sometimes what we get is what we get, we must understand and may be not label things ?

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

some situations has no instant solutions..... most people are stuck ... in some way or that other .... got to accept the situations and understand it better and make peace that's all ....

similarmeerkat4 · Answer

all will reach a saturation point individual and in relationship.... and in work ....  if you need a way out find out ... speak to family or take break from all

lovesickstork9 · Answer

Trying to make peace with myself.

help me please

how do I change for the better?

difficult tym after breakup