I want to end my relationship sometimes because I don't want attachment but I don't want to hurt him
Hey thanks for reaching out. It would be helpful if you tell me what makes you feel this way?
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i'm confused about my relationship we're together since 4 years
i would advice you if you could figure out stuff what you exactly want rather than hanging on to it .
Crying wont really help but try to find solution to your problem.
problems are there in everyons life so try to handle it.
take a piece of paper write down your priorities and goals and try to achievr them by setting realistic targets!!!!
if there are problems in your rellationshio then try to reslove them
and if you think that the guy is not the right person for you then maybe in a polite way you can end your realtiobshio and atleast be friends
i'm stucked in our memories in that person I just don't know what to do he doesn't care about me nor he prioritise me
maybe you can express you concerns to him firmly once and if he does not care then I feel you should move on!
memories are vicious they are like trap sometimes but we need to focus on present .People change with time.Thence,we have two options 1)either resolve or 2) leave
relationships are always mutual and never one sided
hence the choice is yours
hmm I know but practically it is too difficult for me
I agree with happiness, there is no point staying in a relationship where you ain’t respected and loved. You should talk to your bf and sort this out by expressing your concern .
take your own sweet tym to figure out things,but remember that as a human being you should be loved and cared
just ensure that your bf is not abusing you
if thats the case then leave is the only option
each person has the right to be respected so please ..undrstand