why is it that my parents always think that I can't do anything ..I'm not talented ..they literally make me feel useless..why do they always compare me with others ..whether it be marks or anything else in life..they always find a reason to show me that I'm not worth anything..

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needafrnd1 · Answer

do not take that to heart

needafrnd1 · Answer

im older son in family and I too face such problems

needafrnd1 · Answer

my younger brother donot face such things

needafrnd1 · Answer

he gets more love then me

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

yea...even me..I'm the eldest one in my family..I often get compared to my younger ones and also to other ones...(my relatives daughter/sons..)especially to marks..like I don't know why they don't understand that marks are not everything

444kii · Answer

isn't that what parents do? it's supposed to make you stronger not weaker. My parents do that all the time they treat me like I'm an outsider and compare me with others but you have to show them that you're not who they think you are. Show them that you are more than their expectations, in order to show them love you have to work really hard

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

it's been a month since my 12th results been out and since that day I've been hearing this ..she got this much/he got that much ! how much did u get..ur brother is better blah blah....

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

@444kii ..u know what u are absolutely RIGHTTT....I jus hope I take ur these words and my parents each word make me word even harder

444kii · Answer

I totally understand I'm in 11th and I'm waiting for my 10th results I'm literally hella anxious about my results and my relatives have been saying that everyone got full A+ and stuff

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

No matter what anyone says, you need to be sure of yourself and confident that you're better than others. Believe in yourself and give a firm reply to your parents. Grades are not a measure of success attained in life. So don't be disheartened even if they compare you. Give them a firm reply by taking a stand for yourself. And believe in your abilities

444kii · Answer

YESSS!!! and you shouldn't get weaker talk to them about how they make you feel,CAUSE CONVERSATION IS THE KEYYY

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

I'm someone who thinks alottttt..and I also know that I could've scored better..and when my parents are reminding me of that again and again it hurts....

444kii · Answer

i KNOW I KNOW I literally know this feeling, we're on the same boat and I know that my parents have high expectations from me and I can never reach there.. but giving up won't let us reach there either isn't it?

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

@excitedtomatoe7 ..thank you soooooo much for these words....🙏🙏I'll try to follow you words and take those very seriously

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

@444kii ..omgggggg we both are lik soooo same..

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

You're welcome and all the best for your future endeavours. Prove your endless capabilities :)

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

even my parents have alottyttt of expectations from me..my 12th results were out and they expectations full A+  that is 6 A+ but I ended up getting only 5 ..and they've been really upset..and especially when relatives and their friends ask them how much did I score..and they come and say things to me...

444kii · Answer

IKKRRRRRR good to meet someone who feels the same way as me 😭<3

444kii · Answer

5 A+ omg please don't think that you're not enough 😭😭 this is amazing I'm so proud of you

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

yea mannnnnnnn.......I guess we both are samee..finally I met someone who can ACTUALLLYYYYYY understand and relate with me..

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

awwwww....that's sooo sweet of u to say thatt🥰

444kii · Answer

yessss like fr you're grades are far better than mine, I'm really upset that your parents didn't accept your grades :(

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

it was soooo good talking to u guys...but somewhere I feel lik I got some REALLYY GOOD advises...thanks everyonee......much loveeee

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

@444kii..no yarrrrr...nothing like that...I respect each and everyyyyy mark that anyone gett...coz I know how it feels when you work sooo hard and get marks ...

444kii · Answer

thank you so much don't ever feel like you're not worth it ❤

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

I don't take grades and marks seriously...it's nothinggggg ...but my parents take it VERYYYY SERIOUSLY...ACCORDING to me,it's jus that u have to reach somewhere good with that marks...what's the use if u score full marks and endup reaching nowhere....

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

btw can I know where ur from

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

I felt reallly good chatting with u...I'm from Kerala btw

444kii · Answer

lmaoooooo this is insane cause I'm from kerala too

444kii · Answer

but I don't really live here I live in Saudi Arabia but I'm here cause its vacation for me rn

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

woahhhh..that's greatt😄

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

good luck for ur results...ull score good....don't worry

444kii · Answer

yesss 😂 wanna talk on snap? I love making friends in general

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

I was gonna ask ...but I felt lik I wouldn't lik it...sooo didn't asked🤣🤣

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

I use insta only...

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

@letteringalleryy

444kii · Answer

omgg same I just gave it a try cause its now or never 😂 wait imma add

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

🤣🤣🤣hahhahah

444kii · Answer

I requested ❤

artisticgarlic8 · Answer

accepted🤣🤣🤣

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