thanks for being there. I hope this phase gets over soon
richa7
do you want to talk about it?
fish
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@boredhare3 if it's meant to be, it will happen. just don't worry
fish
@richa7 yes
richa7
@fish.... talk it out. let your inner feelings out of yourself... you will feel relieved.
richa7
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@boredhare3..if he is comfortable being single, respect his choice. i have been through this i respected that.... but after sometime he came back to me and we are happy thereafter. tell him and assuare him that whatever it is.... you will be there for him.
fish
I have been with him for past 7 years and i have been given my soul and heart into this relationship. so last year we decided that we would take this forward to marriage. but then he opened up to me saying he had multiple relationships when we were in a relationship. I was really shocked and i was shattered. our whole equation changed after that. I told him we will leave it and take it forward. later our relationship started getting sore, it was full of anxiety and fights. we continued like that for a year hoping it will get better. he finds me making fights and he says I'm way too anxious. he is not the same person i knew anymore.
richa7
oh my god.... its very stressful. i am so sorry you had to go through that. i cant even imagine the situation.
fish
he is not able to handle my emotional outbursts. he told we will end this because it's becoming toxic. I understand his decision, but i just wish why can't he give me time to make it better. why is he giving up on me when i didn't. he dosent answer my calls or texts anymore. but I'm not able to move on. I still hope he will come back to me
richa7
but... calm down... and focus on your positivity. your heart matters the most. i think he was a pervert. he doesnt deserve your love.
richa7
its not a healthy relationship in my opinion. dont lean on to him. it will break your heart again. your mental health matters. be selfish
fish
yeah I'm trying to tell myself the same. thank you so much for hearing me out. I do feel better
richa7
be free to talk anything here.
richa7
no one is going to judge you.
boredHare3
he doesn't tell people that he's in a relationship. when I ask for reason, he says that people around him then take his friendship for granted... πΆ
boredHare3
and he got proposed 2 times. they toh don't know na, ki he is in a relationship... π£π£π£ why the f*** ppl change